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The other day, my 90 year old dad asked me to buy him some new pyjamas. When I asked him what kind, he was very specific: they had to be traditional men’s pyjamas with matching top and bottom and a drawstring waist for the latter.

You’d think those would be easy enough to find, right? Think again. I mean, apart from your dad or your grandpa, who wears matching pyjamas anymore?

Certainly not my husband who sleeps in a long sleeved teeshirt, toque and black Denver Hayes briefs. Nor my son who, until recently, combined pyjama bottoms with a different teeshirt every night, that is until I threatened to boycott doing his laundry. Anyone else hate folding teeshirts? He now keeps the same teeshirt for a few consecutive nights before changing it.

Recently, (I can’t remember how the topic came up; I may have asked him where I could buy men’s pyjamas), my ex-husband reminded me that he hates wearing a teeshirt to sleep at night because his tossing and turning makes him feel like a tightly wrapped burrito. No fancy pj bottoms in his chest of drawers either. Nope. No, siree. Just a pair of white Stanfield’s briefs, the kind that come in packs of three, easy to bleach and go well with white tube socks.

As for me, I wear a ratty pair of worn, brushed-cotton capri bottoms with an old union teeshirt that I can’t seem to part with. The capri pants are like regular pants on a normal-sized person, hovering just above my ankles. Not having a drawstring, and me not having hips, they tend to stay behind when I toss and turn, prompting me to have to physically haul them back to centre with each nighttime change of position. They have also been known to descend to the depths of plumber’s abyss (that would be somewhere between mid thigh and knee) when I am rushing out to put the garbage in the morning. Hence the oversized teeshirt for extra insurance coverage.

In conclusion, I haven’t found my dad’s pyjamas yet. The pair I did find online had a one star rating with no explanation. Somebody’s dad clearly wasn’t satisfied.

Do share your dad pyjama sources if you have any.

What do you wear to bed?

One of my son’s favourite bedtime stories when he was young. Note the alternative spelling of pyjama!

8 thoughts on “Pyjama Time

  1. Louise Dwerryhouse says:

    I wear leggings and a T-shirt and white cotton gloves that I have to wear in the winter sometimes with gobs of hand cream underneath as my hands get so dry and cracked. I have to admit the white gloves are a but of a sex killer.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. bogeyandruby says:

      Thanks for sharing, Louise! If white gloves are sex killers then so are C-PAP machines and mouth guards and snoring dogs! Haha


  2. Jean says:

    the drawstring was hard to find, but here ya go:

    Liked by 1 person

    1. bogeyandruby says:

      Thanks, Jean! These certainly got a better rating than the ones I found!


  3. Joan Carmichael says:

    Amazon seems to have a lot of traditional pyjamas with 3000+ 4.5* ratings.


    1. bogeyandruby says:

      Thanks, Joan! I am reluctant to order clothing from Amazon just because of the hassle to return it. I may have to resort to it. Definitely lots of options here. 🙂


  4. Deborah MacKay says:

    Have a look at the Bay. There is a mens pyjama set and it is on sale.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. bogeyandruby says:

      Thanks, Debbie! I had looked at the Bay and found a set with a low rating. I will check again. Happy New Year!


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