bogeyandruby

Random stuff, reflections on the meaning of life and death, humour, self-deprecation, a bit of bad poetry.

“Mummy, how come every girl I like is mean to me?”

“Did something happen today?”

“Well, this girl I like wanted a number bib. I couldn’t reach them in the cupboard so I stood on a cone and it got squished.”

“And?”

“She said, “Really, Sean?”, in a mean voice, with her arms crossed.”

“Did you get it for her anyway?”

Looking sheepish, “Yes.”.

“Good boy.”

What’s endearing about this is that the girl is a head taller than him. Personally, I might have told her she was being rude as I handed her the number bib but I’m not sure that would have made a difference.

How do we deal with mean girls (and boys for that matter)? I never really mastered the art back in the day. And even now, I’m more about modelling empathy than fighting back. In the meantime, I advised him to hang with the nice girls. Hopefully he’ll figure that one out before another cone gets crushed.

2 thoughts on “Mean Girls

  1. Brenda W says:

    Perhaps just ill-mannered? Relations are so complex at that age. She might not realize that her attempt to act sophisticated seemed mean.

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  2. Yes, she's probably trying to look cool and here's this eager boy tripping over his feet and crushing cones trying to please her.

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